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When you participate in bondage or spanking or any type of resistance play or role-playing, it's necessary to establish a "safeword," which is a code word that means 'Stop, now, I'm dead serious.' This word should be something you won't forget and that won't be used during S-- any other way. The most common words people use are "Green-Yellow-Red:" Green means "everything's cool go for it," Yellow means "Don't stop, but don't do anything more intense than that," Red means "Stop all activity right now."
I don't recommend playing with strangers at ALL! I only play with my wives only one on one, no bi-sexual play and no extra-marital playing.
But if you happen to fall into the snare of temptation, be very careful when playing with a new partner for the first time, particularly in cases where you do not already know this person, and most particularly in cases where you will be meeting someone you don't know very well in any circumstance that could get you into trouble. Always arrange your first meetings in public places. Don't follow a stranger anywhere!
While it may seem like common sense (and it applies equally well to any dating situation, not just a b d s m session), it's still sometimes easy to ignore.
This tip below applies to men and women, women with evil intentions can be just as deadly as men with evil intentions
One thing that is always useful if you are going to be meeting someone you don't know well in a private setting is to arrange to have a friend call you at certain times throughout the night. Set up a secret code word with your friend; if you do NOT say that code word during the calls, or if you do not answer the calls, your friend should immediately notify the authorities.
Make sure your friend knows where you will be, and make sure your partner knows that you have arranged these calls. A partner who objects is not a safe partner.
-Many people like to experiment with flogging, which is whipping with a multi-tailed whip called a flogger. Floggers are very scary-looking, but they feel nothing like they look, and often (depending on the type of flogger and how it's used) they're not painful at all unless you strike hard enough.
However, you should avoid the cheap, stiff floggers sold at many S-- toy stores and novelty stores; the lashes are thick and stiff, and the edges are not rounded, meaning they're painful and can cause injury. A good flogger has soft lashes and won't injure you. A very soft flogger, such as a deerskin flogger, does not hurt at all unless you strike hard enough..
- If you are paddling or spanking someone, you should be careful where you hit. It's okay to paddle, flog, or spank someone's butt, thighs, or upper back; if you are careful, you can also spank or flog someone's breasts.
Stay away from kidneys, lower back, and neck. NEVER strike someone in the face or on the neck with any object. Avoid joints, such as ankles, knees, and elbows--they're surprisingly fragile and easy to damage.
Remember that a person who is bent over or in some other position that stretches the long muscles is more vulnerable, and can not take as much, as a person who is in a position where the body's long muscles are not extended.
That's all for this post I'll post more later.
Son of The ALMIGHTY YAHUWAH!
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`If you're into bondage, make sure you build safety into your equipment. My handcuffs have a safety catch -- I just push it with my thumb and they come off. I use this method so much, I actually lost the key years ago, but don't need it. For being tied up, use slipknots. I have done extensive experiments and figured out techniques for tying myself up when I don't have someone to play with; my experiments also revealed how to make the bonds escapable, while yet creating the illusion of being trapped and helpless.
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